Each of us in life had to hear, speak or read in classical Russian literature, under various circumstances, the stable expression "doomed". So, what does this phrase mean, what can it tell us, and what does it bring to both sides?
Meaning of phraseology
Referring to the interpretation of dictionaries, one can understand the expression "doomed" as a manifestation of love for a person. It, in turn, is expressed in the form of immense tenderness and boundless trust. In this case, we are talking about the elevation of the object of adoration over something simple and so understandable for each of us.
Moreover, given the meaning of the word “to look forward to”, that is, “to hear” in combination with the particle “not”, we can conclude that a person is so blinded by love that he does not recognize the soul of another. He sees nothing wrong with her. And this does not mean at all that it should be a negative phenomenon. Most likely, being in a state of complete dependence on the surging feeling of adoration and trust, a person endows the object of his passion with only the best qualities.
Sharedoubts
As you know, phraseologisms are a stable combination of words, and the meaning of each word separately is not the defining meaning of this phrase. Nevertheless, the expression "doomed", the meaning of which was discussed above, raises a completely natural question. How is it possible to love someone and not feel his soul? Do we really understand the meaning of this phraseological phrase correctly? Absolutely yes!
Firstly, as already noted, it is worth remembering the features of phraseology, where the meaning of each word is at odds with logic. Secondly, this is exactly what they say about a person who experiences a strong feeling, but this does not in any way characterize the person to whom it is addressed. After all, the very meaning of the word “soul” is associated with something sublime and beautiful. But do not forget the main thing: the soul of each person has its own color. And it might be black.
Is this love?
Love is like a layer cake. Here it is all lying in front of you on a platter so beautiful, tasty and understandable, but you should think about how many ingredients you need to create both a cake and love. After all, adoration, tenderness and trust are also components of love.
Sometimes it seems: what a happiness it is to be loved so much! But it is worth remembering the versatility and complexity of the human soul, the range of shades and halftones that it is able to play. Based on the foregoing, we can conclude that the expression "doomed" can be said by a parenttowards a small child. After all, only children truly deserve this kind of love and adoration.
Love attack or how to gain control
Adult people are complex and ambiguous natures that can possess manipulation skills. They understand perfectly well what it means to “do not have a soul”, what gives this feeling to a person, how wings grow, and life becomes painted with bright colors. It is worth knowing that manipulation can look like a manifestation of tenderness and adoration. And the ultimate goal of such an insidious game is to gain complete control over either your will or your finances.
Even from the outside, such increased attention can look like a sincere flow of feelings. And subsequently the doting admirer becomes your manipulator. A person who is subjected to such an attack begins to feel that he is cared for and understood, the boundaries of his own personality begin to blur, and already the manipulator completely fills his life and influences his opinion. It is worth remembering that he althy relationships are built and developed slowly. In order to become truly friends or a couple, you need time, which will give you the opportunity to find out who does not have a soul in you.
