Everyone must have heard the word "loser". Who is this, do you know?
This is a word of English origin. "Loser" is translated into Russian as "loser". Everything seems to be clear here. But it is not so. Everyone and everywhere has completely different ideas about what the word “loser” (loser) means.
And the education of a person does not play any role. Someone considers losers to be pessimists, someone unlucky, someone in general the dregs of society. So let's figure out what the word "loser" means in modern society.
Great ambitions
And yet a human loser, who is this? This is the one who wants to get everything at once, but he doesn’t even try to do anything to make his dreams come true. As a rule, such people are constantly full of hatred and envy for others, the government. However, they usually do not even come to the polls because they are too lazy.
Some of the losers just love the crime chronicle. News about murders, accidents and robberies cause them only positive emotions andcomments like “I told you the world is going to hell!”
Losers consider themselves very smart, they just, you see, are unlucky in life. They will never help anyone. Of course, losers can respond to a small request, like helping to carry a suitcase. However, one should not expect real help or self-sacrifice from them.
Eternal losers
Losers are unlucky all the time. And they have chronic bad luck: the husband drinks and beats his wife and children, the wife walks, the children drink and smoke, the roof leaks, the washing machine constantly breaks down, and the computer freezes. They go the wrong way all their lives, love the wrong people, get married by chance, buy when prices rise and sell at the lowest prices. It even seems to such people that when issuing money from an ATM, they will find a defect …
Losers always lack money. They want everything at once! However, instead of dreaming about how they will create a business and start earning, they dream about how they will spend money. True, sometimes such people even have money, but they still will never have enough.
Loser parent, who is this?
Is this possible? It seems erroneously that the meaning of "loser" refers only to hardened bachelors. It is not always so. Completely different segments of the population fall under this category. The burly mother of the family, and the father of many children, can be a loser. Although, their parents are usually useless.
The fact is that raising children is hard work. And as mentioned above, losersthey don't like to be stressed. Therefore, such unfortunate parents are trying in every possible way to get rid of their duties. They prefer to send their children to round-the-clock nurseries, kindergartens, boarding schools, send them to summer camps for three shifts, or give them to their parents. In this way, they put all the responsibility for the upbringing of their children on other people, which makes life much easier for them. And they attribute their failures in raising children to the school.
And the news that their children are registered with the police and are in trouble with the law does not surprise them at all. After all, they are unlucky all their lives…
You can't feel sorry for them
Losers complain all the time. This is their favorite pastime. They do not notice life itself, its colors, ups, downs and sunny days. They do not see other people and all the good in them. After all, they are busy with the eternal struggle with themselves, with others or with the wind that blew in their direction.
Why is this happening? Is there anything you can do to help the loser? Better not.
The fact is that their psychology is flawed and leads down. If you “understood” him, admitted that he was “unlucky all the time” - you took a step down next. If you have admitted that something in this life may not depend on you, that all the bad things you have done can be justified, that it is not you who are to blame for your failures - failures will come. Simply because you allowed it to be possible.
It is better to stay away from losers as far as possible, they should not be listened to and feel sorry for. Otherwise, they may drag you into a world of complaints and failures.
Now that you know what the word "loser" means,who it is and how to recognize it, you suddenly thought that you also have similar features. Scared? So that's great! So you are definitely not a loser!
How not to become like them?
In order not to turn into a loser, you must follow some laws of the universe:
1. Never envy. Don't waste your precious time on this bad feeling.
2. Try to forget about old failures, resentments and disappointments. Do not spoil your karma with all this. Know how to forgive.
3. Enjoy the activity itself, not the benefits it brings.
4. Be selfless and help others.
5. Don't be lazy and don't blame others. Start making the world a better place with yourself. And be kinder to others, then they will start paying you the same.
6. Maintain relationships with relatives. The family is the most reliable support and strong rear. Frequent changes of partners only lead to the fact that in the end a person is left completely alone.
7. Be frugal but don't skimp.
8. Listen to other people's advice and choose the one that works for you.
