Thanks to words, a person finds a common language with others. This happens due to the ability to clearly formulate a thought, logically fit it into the generally accepted framework, and then pass it on to others. “To speak out” is a concept of the same plan, only the conversation is with oneself. Within the framework of reflection, a person scrolls through everything thought out and done, after which he comes to certain conclusions. For example, giving up a hobby or never doing stupid things again.
Personal Promise
The fundamental word will be "vow". It falls into three acceptable interpretations, each of which imposes certain obligations:
- oath;
- vow;
- promise not to do anything.
What is special? If you want to swear, you should not do it in front of others. It's a good idea to promise your nutritionist to lose weight by summer or tell your friends that you will never drink again in your life. But the key emphasis ison the awareness of the need for self-refusal.
Intimacy with sin
In each of its meanings, "to swear off" comes close to "to repent". A word that is clearly associated with the religious sphere gives a better idea of the essence of the process. After all, “to repent” is:
- confess to guilt;
- sorry for the mistake;
- to repent.
That is, a person is aware of his sinful nature, but is trying with all his might to correct the situation, to become a little better. Whether it's giving up bad habits or questionable meetings, it doesn't matter.
Prohibition rule
And yet the main criterion is the opposite action. You must first commit a misdemeanor, and only then make a voluntary commitment to never do it again. Only when the indicated conditions are met, it can be called "to renounce". The reflexive suffix -sya indicates self-sufficiency: you don't need a friend, mother, or priest to witness the oath. Your own unpleasant physical or psychological sensations are the motivation that will allow you not to do stupid things in the future.
Everyday conversation
Today vows are not sacred. Hundreds of them are given out every day. Most are related to he alth, others are related to lifestyle. If you want to swear, it will not require much effort. Another thing is that the word is used only for extreme situations. When there is an incredible spiritu althe need to express one's rejection of both the consequences and the actions themselves.
Headache due to heavy drinking? No more drinking! Another bad divorce? Do not get married! And yet remember: any promise is valid only as long as the person agrees to follow it.
