Have you noticed situations where a husband and wife support each other in any situation? But there are also couples in which one of the halves hears a categorical “no”, no matter what they ask. Psychologists believe that you need to be able to ask correctly. So, today we will learn about what it means to "questioner".
Meaning
This word is often used in conjunction with the word "look". The questioner is the one who asks. Moreover, the request is expressed in the form of a question. But the most important thing is the intonation of the asker. After all, it is known that the same sentence, but pronounced with a different intonation, changes its meaning. If the intonation is inquiring, then your interlocutor understands this and will be able to catch your mood and request.
Kitten with a broken leg
Small, tender, fluffy lump meows plaintively on the dirty pavement. Won't your heart tremble at what you see? Sometimes it is precisely this tactic that the asking person chooses. His eloquent gaze speaks for itself. And the petitioner - after all, this is already a vulnerable character in itself, to whom to asksomething really scary. Why? Because he is sure in advance that he will be refused. This is where the “questioning look” appears. Whether this is correct or not can be answered only if you know not only the subject of the request, but also the person to whom this request is addressed. What is your opinion: is it possible to refuse a "kitten with a broken leg"?
What do women want?
Lovely ladies are often mistaken in believing that a look, especially an inquiring one, is a decisive maneuver in the fulfillment of their desire. It is worth remembering that you need to ask correctly. An inquiring tone will not always help you, and the image of “weak and defenseless” will get bored and implausible after a while. With a man, you have to be confident. Do not confuse confidence with arrogance and shamelessness, but do not pay attention to the grumbling or lack of mood of a loved one.
But it also happens that women are often offended by the reaction to their request from a man. Because they are not used to talking directly to their beloved about their desires. We try to delicately hint to him about what we want, while confidently believing that he will understand. Will not understand. Therefore, it is better to speak directly.
But female nature protests against it! Because in childhood, every girl's parents tried to instill modesty, explaining to her that asking is bad. So such funny characters appear, for example, like a painted blonde, who in a fake-inquiring voice, speaking about herself in the third person, goes to her “cherished” goals: “Your pet wantswarm coat! Quite possibly, trying on such an image, the lady wants to protect herself from a possible rejection. Even if she wants something very expensive, there is no need to shame her for it. After all, she herself understands this. And that questioning tone or look is proof of that.
