How nice it is to hear when a matured child says: "The most joyful memories of my childhood are connected with the trips that my father took me with him. I liked it when he read something to me, told me something and taught me something" Of course, not everyone and not always had a carefree and bright childhood, but this mainly depends not so much on how high the material well-being of the family in which the child grew up was, but on what methods of upbringing they used
parents.
In our age of information technology, you can talk a lot and for a long time about the means of education used by parents and teachers. But one thing is clear, if they do not affect the heart of the baby, then there will be no benefit from them. In recent decades, in addition to such traditional methods as oral instruction, the printed word, aesthetic influence, some more methods of education have been added. This is, for example, the method of free education or, as it is also called, the methodpermissiveness. How good or bad it is - it makes no sense to say, because they are all effective and good in their own way. The method of free education implies the absence of any framework that restricts the freedom of the child. Then the only means is an information avalanche that falls on the fragile psyche of the baby. Will the child cope with such a load? Will it be helpful?
In order for the means of education to bring the desired benefit, they must meet a specific purpose. To do this, it is important to reflect on the following question: "Who do I want to see my child - a weak-willed egoist or a person who successfully overcomes difficulties?" A baby who remembers the joyful moments of childhood and the instructions of his father or mother can become a successful and happy person. At the same time, instruction and teaching are powerless if the words of the parents are at odds with
business. Thus, personal example is the most effective and most difficult method of raising children.
To know what to strive for, it is always good to have a worthy example to follow. And for the means of education to be successful, it is important that the parents themselves sincerely believe in what they teach their child. There are wonderful lines in the Bible: "The words that I command you to do today should be in your heart. Inspire them in your children, talk about them when you are in the house and when you walk along the road" (Deuteronomy 6:6) These words contain one very important principle that parents should remember: what you teach must firstbe in your heart.
The formation of personality in the process of upbringing in children occurs continuously, and
because the more attention is paid to communication with the child, the better.
It's very good when mom and dad are looking for an opportunity to spend more time with the child, children feel it well, which means they feel that they are important and that they are loved.
In addition, if the child is not forgotten to praise, this will contribute to the fact that he will have a positive self-esteem.
Just don't go to extremes, if a mischief-maker has messed up, he should be punished, but make it so that he understands that he is being punished because they love him.
Frames set by parents and means of upbringing should form in the child a sense of security, not limitation.
This is the main task that faces all parents and teachers who take responsibility for the upbringing of babies, and therefore for their future.
