Everyone in life, probably, there are situations when you have to wait a long time for an answer from a person, and sometimes it even happens that a question or request is left without attention. What is ignore and how to deal with it, you can find out more later in the article.
Meaning of the word "ignore"
The older generation and young guys do not always have time to follow the emergence of newfangled words and expressions. For example, not every person knows what an ignore is, and when they hear such a word, they don’t understand what it is about.
"Ignore" is an abbreviation for "ignoring" from "ignoring" (intentionally ignoring). As statistics show, the word "ignore" is the most used in social networks and forums, and in everyday life this concept pops up less often. However, outside the Internet, everyone can face such an unpleasant problem as ignoring someone.
How to behave in this case, as well as whether it is worth creating such a situation yourself, later in the article.
What to do if you are being ignored
Unfortunately, it happens that a person stops answering calls for no reason ormessages, and also avoids meeting in person. After dozens of messages or calls that have remained unanswered, the understanding comes that this is an ignore. The person does not answer not because they are busy or unable to answer, but because they have chosen to ignore.
The meaning of ignore can be interpreted in different ways, depending on the situation. Perhaps a person is simply tired of communicating or it is unpleasant for some reason to contact, or maybe he has some kind of trouble and he is not up to communicating with friends and relatives.
First of all, you need to understand the reason for this behavior. It often happens that a guy or a girl starts to ignore each other after a bad date or intimacy. In this case, you should not leave dozens of missed calls and write compassionate messages about how painful this loss is. You need to stop communication with pride and self-esteem in order to remain in the memory of a partner as a worthy person.
There is also a situation when the communication of old friends gradually fades away, and then completely stops. In this case, the former friend can safely ignore any request. You should not pursue him or blame him for the fact that there is no longer a former friendship. Everything is done for the best, do not forget this.
And if the second half after a quarrel began to ignore, then in this case, you should not let the situation take its course. This is where you just need to achieve a conversation or a personal meeting and discuss everything. Perhaps the offense is trifling, so it’s better not to start the problem and solve it right away.
If you gladly agree to help your friends, colleagues or relatives, and in return you receive an ignored request, then you should think about your attitude to life and other people and maybe stop communicating with "friends" who take advantage of your kindness without giving anything in return.
Is it worth ignoring a loved one
As already mentioned, ignoring is an effective way to stop communication or, at best, spoil it.
And some believe that with its help you can achieve a better location for yourself. After all, it often happens that, without receiving an answer to his request or due attention, a person begins to call more and more, send messages and try to achieve the desired result by any means.
However, it is worth thinking sensibly and understanding that ignoring means, first of all, an unwillingness to contact or meet in life. Therefore, if you have a desire to continue a neutral or positive relationship with a person, then it is better not to try to attract his attention to yourself by deliberately ignoring.
In closing
Ignore is an extremely unpleasant way to stop communicating with someone. If someone openly does not take into account all your requests, calls, messages or attempts to establish communication, then you should think about whether it is worth spending so much time, effort and emotions on him?
Those who want to communicate and value friendship or relationships will never take such a measure as ignoring.
If resentment and anger rage in the heart, there is no desire to continue contact with the person, then first of all you need to calm down, and then in a calm tone discuss the situation with the person who offended you. Perhaps not everything is so tragic, the problem can be solved with an ordinary conversation and, as a result, maintain a good relationship.