Man is a social being, and therefore subject to the influence of others. How great is this impact - depends on the volitional qualities of the individual. Someone cannot take a step without the approval of significant persons, but for someone it is indifferent: he makes his own choice. And yet in the life of every person there comes a moment when he asks himself: "Why am I here?" This can happen for no apparent reason: you have a good job, your bosses appreciate it, your colleagues respect you, your family is waiting for you at home - in a word, everything is like everyone else, and quite safely. However, something is missing: like in a dish prepared according to all the rules, there are not enough spices, without which it seems insipid. You begin to catch yourself asking yourself the question more and more often: "What is the purpose of the soul?" This means it's time to deal with the answer.
Getting to know yourself
Glob althe question of the task of your soul for this life should begin with the first step - meeting with yourself. This is not a banal meeting with someone insignificant, this is your acquaintance with the most important person for you - you. Therefore, this meeting should begin with preparations: you do not come to an interview with a potential employer in home clothes.
Step by step instructions are as follows:
- free time for a meeting: turn off the phone, reschedule your business for the next day;
- put on your best suit or dress: you are getting ready for a big event;
- prepare a pen and paper;
- draw a sheet of paper into 3 columns: manifestation of emotions; favorite activities; reviews about this relatives, parents, loved ones;
- write everything you know yourself, and if you have difficulty with the third column - conduct a survey among loved ones;
- answers should contain the essence: do not "spread" the thought along the tree;
- analyze the result and determine your strengths;
- think about what kind of business your qualities could be applied effectively;
- reflect on the question of how your profession aligns with the qualities you learned from researching your personality strengths.
In order to get the answer to the question: "Purpose is …", you have advanced one step.
Energy recall
We continue to move towards the study of our life task: listen to ourselves and feel what hints our body signalsus about what he is comfortable with or vice versa. This concerns human energy.
So, you have chosen your occupation for life, go to work, perform your job duties and, most likely, will do this job for many years…
How do you feel as you read these lines and visualize it all? Do you feel a surge of strength, enthusiasm, a desire to continue your activities, are you covered by a wave of joy? If so, then you are in the right place and have correctly decided on the profession, and therefore on the mission - and this is wonderful.
Worse, if you feel like a dreary mood covers you, you internally resist and tense up at the mere thought that you will be doing the hateful work for many more years. This is a sign: it's time to change something.
Signs of the right choice
The right choice of destination is, among other things, the work that corresponds to the vocation. If you notice during the working day that:
- Time flies by unnoticed: you just plunged into the next work task, and the clock reminds you of the end of the working day.
- It doesn't matter to you how much time you spend on your duties, and the issue of payment is not decisive for you. It may seem to others that you are wasting your energy in vain, and that your pay does not match the energy costs, but you do not pay attention to the opinions of other people and remain in your place.
- What you do gives you emotional satisfaction, youyou feel comfortable, you feel a surge of energy, you get everything that you have in mind. By the way, your financial situation is quite stable or improving.
- You are an authority for others: they need your advice and turn to you for help - you are on the right track.
These signs signal to you that your choice coincided with the Universe's Plan for you.
About types of purpose
Let's try to understand: how you can feel the right choice of destination. Simple truths need to be realized:
- Self-observation allows you to identify the needs of the soul and take care of it in time: analyze your feelings; control your instinctive impulses; correlate your actions with moral principles, reveal love and the qualities of masculinity or femininity given to you.
- Shaping and nurturing our sensory side is about translating uncontrollable emotions into conscious feelings.
- Development of the spirit is the basis of our constructive transformation. When the spirit directs us to creation, forming a desire to improve the world, the space around us begins to change, and desires begin to come true.
- At birth, we receive the makings and abilities, and our task is to develop them. By doing it, we have support from a single information field. By neglecting the gifts, we doom ourselves to a dull existence.
The main purposes have nothing to do with a specific profession or status: all this is onlya sign that you correlate your actions with the above principles for the development of the soul, spirit, feelings and talents.
Search map
If you began to be overcome by questions about the meaning of life and the direction of the goal, then something in your life went wrong: happy people are so absorbed in their work that they do not "bother" such questions. There is a saying: "Doing what you love, you can even miss the apocalypse."
So let's take the next step towards your life's purpose. To do this, we choose one free day, which we completely devote to answering the question: "My purpose is …"
Next, we divide the selected day into two parts. Until noon, we set ourselves the goal of giving ourselves maximum pleasure. Men and women have different ideas about pleasure. So the options are:
If you are a woman, then your path lies in the direction of the spa, massage, sauna, etc. ways to take care of the physical body, which will thank you. Devote time only to your beloved, spend as much money on it as you can
If you're a man, you're likely to enjoy thrill-related activities. At the same time, you should not attend football matches or other competitions. It is important here that you be a participant, not a spectator
So it's noon and you're back home:
- dress up in something beautiful: the questdestination is not an ordinary event;
- prepare a piece of paper and a pen, turn off anything that might distract you;
- title the first sheet like this: "My Destiny";
- set the start time and set the timer for 1 hour;
- next put the number "1" and write whatever comes to mind;
- do not ponder your thoughts, just record, even the most "crazy" proposals carefully list;
- don't be distracted by anything for an hour;
- when the timer chimes, stop, review your notes, then crumple them up and throw them in the trash, because everything you wrote has nothing to do with you personally;
- start a new list and keep going until your body reacts to a certain entry with some kind of sign: it can be goosebumps, tears, emotional outburst, etc.
- keep the list going until you run out of ideas;
- put it off for a while, maybe a day or a week;
- repeat the procedure, noting the emotional reaction of the body;
- if you get a body response again at the same point, you have found what you were looking for.
Other ways
There are different methods to meet your destiny. What suits whom is a matter of individuality and personal preference. So, to determine your birth destiny, you can refer to:
- To childhood memories: to your favorite games of the period when you were free and happyjust from the game process.
- If you know the technique of meditation, then you will need a hint "from the other side". During meditation, you can get help of a kind: among your ancestors there were both outstanding and not very bright personalities, but each of them made a certain energy contribution to your destiny.
- The next way is also related to imaginative thinking: imagine that you have realized your wildest dreams regarding financial well-being. Then ask yourself the question: "What would I like to do now that I have everything?".
